People have the beauty of pleasing people, and people have the heart to cherish things.

2019-12-18 | material path original |

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On December 19, 21 years ago, Qian Zhongshu left the world.

I think of him again today, I still think of his fun.

It's just that he is no longer fighting for cats, humorous tongue.

Instead, he stood beside his daughter as a father and taught her fun and tenderness.

Funny parents, choose from thousands of miles.

When I started watching "We Are", the most enviable thing was the fun of Qian Zhongshu's family.

In Qian's house, Qian Zhongshu and Qian Min are two urchins, arguing with each other and saying nothing. Yang Min and Qian Min are sisters, taking care of each other and accompanying each other.

Sometimes, Qian Zhongshu is a teacher, and Yang Ye's mother and daughter are students. If you have a problem, you can solve it with Qian Zhongshu. Sometimes, Qian Zhongshu becomes a child and needs Yang Ye's mother and daughter to take care of life.

Group photo of Qian Zhongshu, Yang Ye and Qian Ye

Interesting is the daily life of this family. When the three go out, they love to observe other diners, overhear them chatting, and then analyze a human emotional drama.

"There are two couples over there, they are arguing ..."

"This man who came is the subject of a couple's quarrel-isn't he just the person who has said their name many times? ... Look at their faces ..."

While eating and watching a movie, it is lively and interesting.

Group photo of Qian Zhongshu, Yang Ye and Qian Ye

Yang Yun said: "Our family is very simple, the three of us are very simple, we are an unusual meeting."

The simplicity of life is a house, two people, three meals and four seasons.

But the light of life is the interest found in ordinary.

Group photo of Qian Zhongshu, Yang Ye and Qian Ye

At first, Qian Zhongshu and her daughter were not good friends.

During the Anti-Japanese War, Yang Min and four-year-old Xiao Qiang lived in Shanghai. Qian Zhongshu was in Yunnan, but he had not seen each other for two years. When he returned, his daughter could not recognize his father.

She saw Qian Zhongshu put her luggage by Yang Ming's bed, and watched Qian Zhongshu anxiously.

She said to Qian Zhongshu: "This is my mother. Your mother is over there."

Qian Zhongshu replied: "I'll ask you, should I know your mother first, or do you first?"

Xiao Qianzhen retorts: "I naturally know first, I have known since I was born, you have grown up to know."

At this time, Qian Zhongshu quietly spoke a word in her ear, and the two immediately turned the enemy into a friend.

Qian Yan as a child

A good father is childlike, especially when he has a daughter, he seems to live smaller and smaller.

Since then, Qian Zhongshu has become Xiao Qiang's playmate, and the two are naughty every day.

Qian Zhongshu loves to draw a grimace on his belly and a beard on his face. He also loves putting various toys in her daughter's bed, waiting for her to get a surprise before going to bed.

He once stacked a "castle" and a "monster" on the bed of Xiaoqianyu, first using a big dictionary as a base, a four-legged bench to make the castle wall, and leather shoes on top. The monster used a little moneySchoolbag full of books, attached to a long shoehorn to make a tail.

Qian Yan

After being arrested by Xiao Qianji, Qian Zhongshu's villain first complained to Yang Ye: "A Yuan bullied me!"

Xiao Qiang justified: "Mummy! Daddy did bad things! I got it on the spot!"

Yang Ye came quickly, the three laughed, and the living room phone rang but I didn't hear it.

When Qian Zhongshu was not accompanied by his daughter, he played the "monk in the stone house" game by himself: a man sitting in his account like a monk, wearing a blanket and talking to himself, enjoying himself.

Qian Zhongshu is proficient in many languages ​​and also loves to use this skill to trick his daughter.

Qian Zhongshu and Qian Yan

Every time there is something to eat, he teases his daughter and says, "Baby, no eat."

Occasionally, Qian Zhongshu also teaches Xiaoqian 瑗 foreign sentences, but it is all nonsense. Whenever a friend is a guest, Qian Zhongshu asks Xiaoqian 瑗 to go out and show up, causing the guests to laugh. At this time, Xiaoqian 瑗 did n’t know how to returnWhat's happening, but complacent.

Funny childishness in the bones of a father can't be hidden from his daughter.

Because of this, they were able to let go of the serious faces of Chinese fathers for thousands of years and use their innocence to give their children a happy childhood.

Childhood is short, and interesting parents can fill the most interesting taste in the world during this time.

Qian Zhongshu and Yang Yan

Interesting parents are more than fun. Behind this fun is the tenderness and love that penetrates the bone marrow.

If you are not gentle, how can you laugh with you; if you do not love, how can you care about you.

When Qian Zhongshu first learned that Yang Ye was pregnant, he said, "I don't want a son, I want a daughter, as long as one is like you."

This is Aiwu and Wu, because Yang Ye is so beautiful, and she also wants her daughter to be like her, but Yang Ye thinks: "I am not satisfied with being like me, I want a daughter like Zhong Shu."

Both of them.

After Qian Qian was born, Qian Zhongshu decided not to have a second child. Because he understood that his parents had limited love, he would give away the love that could have been given to Qian Qi.

At the time Qian Qian was born, the Qian family was in a foreign country. They were busy working weekdays. Everyone would send children to the nursery, but Qian Zhongshu and the couple couldn't bear it.

Their neighbor and friend once suggested that they could help take the child. But Yang Yan thought: "When the child is still pregnant, he doesn't care much, but he is not in the belly, but he is worried about how to protect him."

One time, a neighbor moved Qian Qian's bed to her bedroom and wanted to read. It was unaccustomed for him. The child slept on the bed and did not cry at all. Instead, Qian Zhongshu and Yang Ye did not sleep all night.

This weekly man who is giggling, how gentle his turn was on that night, we don't know.

70s, Qian Zhongshu and his wife were beaten into the "ox ghosts and snake gods" camp. The neighbors were a tall and young "revolutionary couple", who specifically criticized a class of intellectuals. Once Qian Qian invited a part-time worker to do laundry and the otherBut he insisted that the hourly workers do the washing for them first, and raised his face and said, "You are not a good person." And slap money.

Yang Ye's beloved girl is so eager to come forward and fight back, but she can't beat her with four punches, and she is kept falling to the ground.

Qian Zhongshu heard the sound running out, seeing this scene, anger was so high that he picked up a thick plank and smashed it on the opponent's head. Fortunately, he advised in time.

It's not glorious to beat people, but love can make them all make the same choice.

Qian Zhongshu, a 63-year-old skinny literati, how can he pick up that thick plank?

When the wife and daughter were deceived, Qian Zhongshu instinctively transformed into a brave husband and father.

A good father is a strong and decisive outsider, and a gentle and considerate family member.

Behind his interesting appearance is often gentle and deep love.

This love is desperate.

Parents are interesting, but they are actually "rich" for their children's spirit, which is the best education.

Qian Zhongshu was an interesting playmate when he was young. When he grew up, Qian Zhongshu was a close friend. Interesting and knowing, the two can naturally communicate equally.

The father and daughter play with each other, but respect each other. For example, someone proposed to let Qian Qiang learn some talents, but Qian Zhongshu asked him to ask Qian Qian directly.

Because of equality and respect, the ears and ears of parents are most effective in teaching and teaching. So Qian Zhi is like the combination of Qian Zhongshu and his wife, both like Qian Zhongshu's obsession and Yang Zheng's.

She knows how valuable and interesting she is, and she also knows how to remain enthusiastic and insist on being herself in mediocre life.

For reading, Qian Yan learned about Qian Zhongshu's obsession, because she often followed Qian Zhongshu to read.

Every time Qian Yi, 11 years old, went to the grandfather's house, he turned over boxes and looked for books, and when he got the floor full of books, he was very surprised. He directly exclaimed: "My family also reads seeds."

Yang Ying once described Qian Qian's reading like this, "Her two fingers, just like Zhong Shu, picked the pages, and flipped through the book in the same amount of time, as fast as Zhong Shu."

When reading a book on weekdays, when both father and daughter see excitement, Qian Zhongshu will laugh and be susceptible to infection. However, Qian Yan reads and reads the sad part, but also cries.

So Yang Yan said: Both father and daughter are foolish. Such qi is a valuable empathy and empathy.

She learned her mother, she was right, she dared to act, and dared to express herself.

Qian Qiang is responsible for cooperating with the United Kingdom on a teaching project. Often such projects are authoritative in foreign countries, so the newly hired British teacher said "I want such teaching like this."

However Qian Qian told him how to teach the best according to the actual situation in China. Foreign experts were not convinced. Qian Qian took him to the library and gave him all the reference books he should read.

At the end of the semester, the foreign expert said, "Yuan, you worked me hard." He admits that Qian Yuan helped him a lot.

But in Qian Yan's mind, this is not enough praise.

Because the best compliment is the sentence that her parents said: "You are a masterpiece of my life."

The most sad thing after I watched "We Are Here" is the sentence: "The good things in the world are not strong, and the colorful clouds are easy to be scattered."


Special statement

In 1997, Qian Yuan died, and in 1998, Qian Zhongshu died, leaving Yang Yan alone.

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